Worry? Can eat or not?

When things are no longer in your control, why bother worrying about it?

[Quote from Hong Wei ]

Ah ha, i finally understand.

Why should i even worry about things that are beyond my control? If i just try do my best on things that are in my control, i see no reason in worrying. It's just like, you do your part, other people do their part. If you tried your best, they tried their best too. No matter what's the outcome, be it good or bad. At least you tried your best.

Since, things don't always turn out good when you do your best.

SO WHY WORRY?

I could have easily just enjoy doing things i like, instead of getting bothered about things that are BEYOND my control!



I used to have this type of thinking. But the saddest part about it is, when i adopt this kind of thinking, things just doesn't go well.

So i adopt a new thinking of worrying about everything!

Things still doesn't seem to go well too!



So, i have 2 choices

1) Do your best, don't worry about stuff that are beyond your control

2) Do your best, and worry about stuff that may become bad, even though it's out of your control



Simply put it, if you were me, which one will you pick?


I could be the always smiling hong wei and less emo hong wei.
And of course the less self-mutilating hong wei, haha joking!



HEH!


So don't worry, BE HAPPY :D

And i hope this thinking stays in my mind forever =]

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P.S. This thing needs a new plastic surgery, SIS! DO YOUR STUFF! :D